August 8, 1944 – January 27, 2022
We the family, sadly announce the sudden passing of Harry Proceviat on January 27, 2022 at Falcon Lake, Manitoba.
Harry is a beloved Husband, Dad, Grandfather, Brother, Uncle, Cousin and Friend. He is survived by his childhood sweetheart, Marlene; children Candace (Don), and Cheryl (Shawn); grandchildren Madison, Cole, Emma, and Nathan; brother Barry (Evelyn); sister-in-law Theresa; brothers-in-law Wayne (Susan), Grant (Roberta), and Wayne (Penny); many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends; and grand-pups Peanut, Ajax, Otis, Juno and Maxwell.
He was predeceased by his mom (Mary); dad (John); sister Nellie; brothers Paul and Tony; second parents Mary and William; sisters-in-law Grace, Beverley, Ola, and Rose; brothers-in-law Stanley and Phillip; and “son” Vincent.
It’s impossible to put to words the impact the tragic loss of Harry has had on us all, and the void we know is there, but haven’t yet felt its full weight. Each person who reaches out and shares their condolences, shows us how many lives he touched with his caring soul; their shock and loss of words matching ours, their love and stories soothing balm, and distraction.
Brought up in Elma, MB, Harry’s dad passed away when he was 3 and he was raised by his mom, who’s fierce love for family and dedication to the Church passed on to him. Family was everything to Harry, and he made sure each one of us knew we were loved; never withholding an “I love you”, a hug and kiss. Never shied away from throwing out a “lookin’ good, Momma” to Marlene. He was a proud dad to his girls, the great mom’s they are and the lives they’ve built, his grandchildren. Many nieces and nephews were “his kids”. He was a constant fixture in the Elma Ukrainian Catholic Church as alter-person and treasurer. He taught most of the past two generations of altar boys, including his grandson’s, assisting on Special Masses and Burials, gently and quietly guiding.
After grade 9, a decision was made that he needed to help his mom on the farm, so he did, providing help to most of their neighbors as well. A self-taught driver, mechanic, tinkerer, welder, and successful business owner. Being a pilot was a lifelong dream Harry fulfilled in his 30’s. The red and white Cessna a landmark in Brereton and Falcon Lake for over 40 years. He was generous taking friends and family up in it, banking hard right, shaking your shoulders and laughing when you climbed out, “you’re okay”. His MacGyver tendencies served him well while fishing his plane keys out of the lake ten feet down. Plunk, Ah, shoot. His chuckle telling the story. He never took himself too seriously, a great role model. Harry worked hard all the time, but loved to have fun with his partner, Marlene. Trips were usually extended stays of equipment auctions across the country. He and Marlene owned several family cabins over the years, which they graciously shared with family, friends, and guy’s weekends ice fishing and hunting. The stories he’d regale us with had us wondering how they survived the shenanigans. Lots of laughs, though. You know where the key is. Payment’s a visit and supper, maybe two fingers of Crown Royal from the freezer, splash of water.
He liked spending time watching whiskey-jacks, their crazy antics; loved having pets around, performing emergency surgery on a couple of them over the years. Harry never seemed to be alone unless by his choice, in the forest, at home, or in the air. His phone had so many contacts on it, it auto-uploaded entire blocks of them to the Cloud, driving him crazy when they were lost on an upgrade, enlisting Cole to help him locate them, “darn phones”. The constant chiming of his cell phone was the background noise in our lives over the years.
He mingled easily with all walks of life, had no airs or pre-conceived judgements. If you got a “he’s a good guy” rating from Harry you were golden, since his okay carried weight in the entire area. He wasn’t afraid to give second chances and rarely got angry, showing compassion everyday as an extension of himself. He was a great judge of character and respected those who quietly gave back where they could. No fanfare, a simple kindness, a visit, a well-timed hug. He was a beacon for family, friends, and associates who knew he was always good for a chuckle, a hello, sage advice, “I’m gonna call Harry.” He asked simple but good questions, reassured us, and made you feel like you were on the right path, or capable or changing paths if you were off the rails. He made life look like it was never heavy. A forester/therapist. Never dominating any conversation or pressuring anyone, we hung onto his words because they spoke volumes:
Gotta do what you gotta do.
Every man knows what he needs.
These are the words on replay in our heads right now. We know we should be happy knowing he’s having laughs with the “angels and everyone he lost, he believed strongly in it, but we just can’t see through our tears. Someday soon, maybe. But not today. Today we grieve with broken hearts, picking up the pieces shattered like fragments of glass on the highway, waiting for the light to shine.
The family would like to thank everyone who attended with care to Harry, who took the time to check in on them and who continue to offer their support and kind words.
In lieu of flowers, a donation may be made in Harry’s memory to the Holy Cross Ukrainian Catholic Cemetery in Elma, Manitoba., Box 141, Falcon Lake, MB, R0E 0N0.
Please join the family for a come and go celebration of life for Harry Proceviat on Saturday, July 2nd, 2022 from 12:00 pm to 5:00 pm at the Whiteshell Community Club, Falcon Lake, MB. Snacks and beverages will be provided. We will be sharing favorite stories, memories, photos, to laugh, to cry, and to remember a wonderful man who is greatly missed.
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Christy and Barry
Our deepest sympathies Marlene and family.
Jerry Lean
We are very sad to hear of Harry’s accident. He was a very nice person and will be missed by many,especially his loving family. Marlene, our thoughts are with you and your family at this trying time . The Bible does give us the hope of a resurrection for those who are sleeping in death. Acts 24: 15. Jerry, Sylvia, and Aili Lean
Ron & Irma Toews
Dear Marlene and your family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Wishing you peace, comfort and courage as you remember your Husband, Dad, and Grandpa. With love and prayers, Ron & Irma Toews
Emma
I’m so sorry to my whole family. I am always here for all of you.
Karen Lycar
John and I were devastated to hear of Harry’s passing .He will truly be missed. Our heartfelt condolences to Marlene, girls and family
shirley neyedly
Marlene and family, our deepest sympathies. Stay strong.
Ken & Shirley Neyedly
Walter Keller
We mourn the loss of a friend , a neighbor , a kindred spirit and a good man.
To the family we offer our heartfelt condolences.
Walter Keller and Alexa Hoerster
Claude Lord
So sorry to hear of Harry’s accident.
Such a good man. I am sure he’s in a better place now with no mosquitoes and no 40 below.
God bless you and be with you Harry.
Jim and Shelley Nelson
Marlene and Family, our thoughts are with you at this sad time. Harry will truly be missed by all that knew him. Shelley and Jim Nelson
Melvin Proceviat
Marlene and family
Our deepest condolences to you
Mel & Pat
Richard McCalder
My deepest condolences to Marlene and family.. I grew up as neighbors to Harrys family on a farm in Elma, and as a young lad would go to their place each summer to help the threashing crew, I was too small to do alot but helped in the field, and always enjoyed the home cooked meals and sitting with Harry and his brothers, listening to their stories. Over the years when ever I met Harry he always had a smile and asked about my family. When ever we met and chatted I always left with a warm feeling.. That was Harry, a very enjoyable person to know. He will be missed by all….
Sympathy from Rick McCalder and family
Fedoryshyn & Daly Families
We would like to send our deepest sympathies to the whole family. Harry was a great man.
Don Iwanoczko
Thinking of you, Marlene and family.
Cherish your memories, they will help you get through this sad time.
Sincerely,
Don and Erna Iwanoczko
Chere Vanderburgh
Dear Marlene, Candace snd Cheryl and families;
Our sincerest heartfelt condolences go out to you all for the sad loss of a husband, father, grandfather and friend to so many. There was not a better man around. He will be sadly missed and forever in our hearts
Jim and Chere Vanderburgh
Leah
Marlene, Cheryl, Candace & Families – Sending you Strength and Comfort through this difficult time. Harry was a wonderful man who will be missed dearly. Take comfort in knowing that he was loved and respected by so many
Mark, Leah, Kirklan & Kasey Lycar
Jan Fedorchuk
Our deepest condolences Marlene and family. Prayers for you & your family as you move through this difficult time. Love, faith & memories will sustain you.
Janalee & Ken Fedorchuk
Vernon Fair
Our deepest condolences to Marlene and Family for your recent loss. When I first met Harry, he greeted me like old friend, he hadn’t seen for a long, long, time. As I got to know him, I found him to be the kindest and warm hearted, and caring individual he was. He would always ask how my family was and always asked about Jim. We’re going to miss you Harry. Thank you for the time we spent together and will always cherish our friendship.
Jim Holmstrom & Vern Fair
Mary and Ray Steinhoff
It is difficult to express our sorrow at Harry’s passing. Sincere condolences to all of you.
Mary and Ray
Larry Solilak
Our deepest sympathies to Marlene and family on the sudden passing of Harry.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Larry & Brenda Solilak
Susan Moody
So sorry to hear of Harry’s passing. It was great to be neighbors when we had the cottage next door, dad (Rolfe Miner) spoke of him often. I can still see him flying his plane while I rode my horse.
Hugs to all, Susan (Miner) Moody
Carl and Lorna Feilberg
Dear Marlene and family, We were shocked and saddened to hear of Harry’s passing.Another great logger friend gone .Don’t think we ever saw Harry without a big smile!!He will be missed by many. Carl and Lorna Feilberg
Sheila and Robert Sutyla
We were shocked to hear of Harry’s sudden passing. He will surely be missed by many. We will miss his support in our church at Elma. He was an adviser when we needed questions answered and our leader. We will miss him but memories will remain. Marlene, Candace and Cheryl and your families, may his memories keep you going at this terrible time. God Bless you.
Rita Lean
Dearest Marlene, Candace, Cheryl and Family’s, Me and my family are so, so sorry about the accident Harry was in.
Bev Kulczycki
I send my deepest condolences Marlene, Candace, Cheryl and extended family members. Wishing you all some comfort through many gracious memories that you all shared. Life is just a moment as once again confirmed through the loss of Harry! Support each other with love, peace and serenity as he now watches over you from heaven above. Sending a hug filled with compassion and hope to carry you all forward during these difficult times.
Rest In Peace Harry!
Carol Ans
Marlene and Family, shocked and sorry to hear of the passing of my old neighbour, schoolmate and friend
We grew up together and Harry always greeted me with the big smile and friendly hello. He was a good neighbour, a wonderful friend and a great community member. He did many good deeds many that were never widely know. Everyone who knew Harry will miss him. Deepest condolences to Marlene and family
Robert Williment
Our deepest condolences to Marlene,Candice ,Cheryl and families. Harry was a great man and friend. We were both deeply shocked and saddened by the news of his passing Rest In Peace Harry you will be sadly missed by everyone that knew you Robert Williment and Gary Rowe (Big Red)
Kyla Jeffrey
Marlene, Candace, Cheryl & Families.
We are so sorry to hear of Harry’s sudden passing.
Wishing you all peace and comfort during these difficult times.
With deepest sympathy,
Kyla, Darryl, Kara & Kaitlan
Evelyn and Maurice
We were saddened and so sorry to learn of your sudden tragic loss. May you find strength throughout this difficult time. Sending prayers, love and hugs.
Christine Savoy
My deepest sympathy to Marlene and all the family.
Harry was the very best of men and I am thankful for having known him.
They never really leave us but are always in our hearts .
All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ken and Lesley Mardynalka
Seems like yesterday you were having drinks at our house. You will be missed by so many. Our condolences to the family. RIP Harry ❤️
Joanne and Ron Gillan
Dear Marlene, Candace, Cheryl and families. We were so shocked to hear of Harrys sudden passing and send condolences to each of you. Harry was a special person who was always so willing to give a helping hand to all, he will be dearly missed. Most sincerely,
Ken Fosty
Marlene and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Harry was such a good man. Always a smile and generous. I think of him every time I sees a Cessna flying at cottage country. Ken & Lorinda Fosty
Charlene Ashton
Marlene and family,
We were saddened when Gord Hood (my brother) told us about Harry’s passing. We’ve remember checking out his runway every time we drove to Mom and Dad’s throughout the years. Our sincere sympathy. Charlene Hood-Ashton and Glen Ashton
Nadine Welz , Donna Welz, Bridget Broek, and our family.
I am so sorry for your loss Marlene, Candace, Cheryl, your families, as well as relatives, friends, and your Kurian Forest Products / Falcon Beach Excavators work family. He will be so very missed. It is hard not to think of Harry without having Donny in the same thought. They worked together starting from the Jackhead project, until Donny’s passing. They both loved working the business. Harry is with the Angels he has missed over the years. So many treasured memories which will keep them with us forever.
Shaun and jeanette
Marlene and family, Heaven definitely got a great guy.. Harry was one of the most honest and nicest guys I have ever met. Always a smile and a story. He will be greatly missed by all who crossed his path. Rest In Peace Harry.
Nadeau Family
Candace, Don, Madison & Nathan, our deepest sympathies to you and your family during these difficult times. Thinking of you and sending hugs!
Kevin & Cassie
Our deepest condolences to Marlene & family. Harry was such an integral part of the community & will will be missed by so many. Wishing you much comfort.
Dwayne and Caroline Schmidt
We were shocked to hear of Harry’s sudden passing. Harry always had that big friendly grin and always so happy. We’ve missed the buzzing of his plane over our cabin since he had moved it to Falcon lake. We know he is still flying around, but in a different location, condolences to all family members.
Barb, George & Clara Durston
Marlene and family- wishing you all comfort and peace to face the days ahead and loving memories of your dear Harry to hold in your heart.
Jackie Proceviat
My deepest condolences to the family. My heart breaks. Harry was an amazing man and have very fond memories of our times spent over the years. My son had the honour of a flyin fishing trip with Harry where the fish were endless. I know my brother will miss his calls/advice from Dad P along with Candace & boys. Rest in peace and watch over us. Jackie & Nicholas Proceviat
Nancy Martin
Oh Marlene and family. I’m so so sorry for your loss. Harry was one of the most genuine people we ever knew. He was a giver. Heart of gold and a friend like no other. He and Paddy are up there now circling their favourite fishing hole and laughing and making new memories. Much love and many thanks for all you both did for us. Always Nancy Martin.
Lorraine & Earl Henderson
Our deepest sympathy on your tragic loss Marlene, Candace, Cheryl and families. Cherish your wonderful memories.
Susan& Don Lillie
Our deepest condolences to the family! Harry was one of a kind and we consider it a privilege to have know him and shared a few stories with him. He was a good man taken way to soon!! May you all find peace in knowing his life meant so much to so many!❤️RIP Harry you will truly be missed!!
Tracey Claytor-Bartley
Dear Marlene, Candace, Cheryl and families. I was so sad to hear of Harry’s accident. He was a pillar of the area and friend to everyone . My deepest condolences to you all.
Georgina Leschyshyn
My deepest condolences to the family. Wishing you peace and comfort. I have many happy memories of the good times and dances in Elma and especially our Malanka fun weekends in Kenora. Rest In Peace.
Melanie Shendroski
Harry was one of the last few legends left. An amazing man with such a kind heart. My condolences to all in this sad time.
Scott and Joy Sutyla
My condolences Marlene, Cheryl, Candice and families. A shock that still doesn’t seem real. I used to see Harry at least once a week. At the store or checking on the Church. He will be missed by so many. Stay strong and let that love in his heart keep you strong.
Jodi
Marlene…Candace..Cheryl & family we were shocked to hear of sudden loss of Harry.. He was a hard dedicated worker. I remember the plane trips into Bushman Lake.
May God give you strength.. love. Guidance & support to guide you thru this time. Cherish memories.. Diboja…. Harry
From Jodi( Wendall), Scott & Cera ( Emma’s friend)
John Smerechynski
Deepest condolences to the whole family! Enjoyed our fishing ventures back in the day to fly in lakes ! His passion for flying was a proud one for him ! One hell of a guy he will be missed!
Cory Campbell
Marlene, Candace, Cheryl & Families,
Please accept my sincere condolences.
Thinking of you all, as you cope during the tragic loss of your husband, dad, and grandpa.
Wishing you all peace and comforting memories, to get you through these difficult days.
Cory Campbell
Kathy Klassen
Marlene, Candace and Cheryl Our deepest condolences to you and your families on the loss of such a wonderful, caring man.
Franklin & Val Penner
Dear Marlene and Family
Val and I were deeply saddened on hearing of your loss. We Have deeply appreciated Harry and all of you through the years. Our prayer for you is that our dear, personal Saviour Jesus will comfort and carry you forward. You have many precious memories to take with you in the forward journey and we have as well.
Garth Evans
Marlene and family,
Tracy and I want to pass on our condolences to you and your family. Harry was a person I looked forward to talking to when we would bump into each other – he was always calm and comforting to speak with. Our thoughts our with you all.
Garth and Tracy Evans
Wendy Stelko
Marlene and Family, My deepest condolences! Harry always showed kindness to all and he was a true gentleman. We have lost a true friend, I will hold you and the family in my prayers.
Tyson&Maria Toews
To Marlene and family.
We are sorry for you loss and are grieving along with you. . Always enjoyed working with Harry! He will be missed. We will be praying for you in this time of loss.
Eleanor and Konrad Burkowski
Condolences to your family.
Wade Doberstein
Barry.
Sorry to learn of your brother’s passing. My condolences to you and his family.
Barb and Lionel St. Godard
Marlene and family, we are so so sad to hear about Harry. He is one of a kind. Always had time for everyone. Always remember his smile… always smiling. He has a heart of gold. He has meant so much to Lionel and I. We know how hard it must be for you guys. He is a great man. And will be remembered as on of the best…”He is one of the good guys”. He is gold. And that carries weight. ❤️❤️❤️
Roger Loiselle
My deepest condolences to the family. Wishing you peace, comfort and the elements of time along with the many happy memories lessen the pain of his loss. I had the privilege of meeting Harry about 20 years ago through work provided by his business and always remember his constant little smile/smirk. Last saw him just couple of months ago along the road and stopped for a quick catch up of time as he was busy repairing equipment. He will be dearly missed!
Neil Zachary
It is hard for me to believe that we will no longer see or talk to Harry. I have known Harry for many years and he was a very special friend. I could write a book about our time together. My heart felt condolences and prayers to Marlene, the Girls and Family.
Larry Sitar
Please accept my deepest condolences. My father and uncle knew Harry well and spent many joyful hours with him. He was one of a kind. I wish you healing and peace.
Shirley (Proceviat) and Ronald Gendron
Our sincere condolences to Marlene and family
Marcie Woods
Such a loss to our community, friend and family circle. Harry was a supporter in many quiet ways. He will be missed but not forgotten as there are “many a story to be told”, where Harry is concerned, and a shot of whiskey (splash of water) to toast a life well lived and loved.
Wishing you peace, Marlene and family.
Mike and Marcie Woods
Ken and Linda Boughton
It is with profound sadness and disbelief that we heard of the tragic passing of Harry. He was certainly one of the good guys! His wonderful smile and friendly disposition endeared him to many.
Our loving and heartfelt condolences to the Marlene and the family at this difficult time. May all of your beautiful memories help to ease your great loss. Harry’s legacy of love lives on.
With love, Ken and Linda Boughton
John MacIver
I can’t imagine your loss. Harry was a great man and a good friend. I am honored to have had him meet my children.
From my family, we are truly sorry for your loss.
John, Lanette, Kurt and Jessica
Arvo Lean
my deepest condolences to Marlene and Family .
I was very saddened to hear of the sudden loss of Harry , I will always remember of his warm hand shakes and unforgettable smile whenever I would meet him.
Arvo Lean
The Barta family
Harry’s unexpected passing has left a void in all our hearts. Words cannot express how sad we are to hear of your loss. We will miss him greatly and forever.
Our deepest condolences.
Sandra Kay
Cheryl, Shawn, Cole, and Emma, we were very sorry to hear of your loss. We have heard so many nice things about Harry from Shawn and were looking forward to meeting both Harry and Marlene. Our deepest condolences to your Mom/Grandma Marlene. Our thoughts are with you all at this very sad time.
Carol Ans
So hard to believe my neighbour, when we were growing up and longtime friend is gone so suddenly. The mold was broken when Harry left us. There will never be another so caring as Harry. My deepest condolences to Marlene, his girls, beloved grandchildren and extended family. He will not be forgotten.
Alvin & Judy Spewak
Our deepest condolences to Marlene and the family. Wishing you comfort and peace.
Henry & Brenda Friesen
Our sincere condolences to the Proceviat family.
We sure will miss Harry.
Vince & Karen
I know there are no words at times like this, it is so hard losing someone that is such an integral part of your life.
Just know how much he loved his family, he truly was a kind man and touched everyone he met.
Sending hugs to you all!
Our Condolences,
Vince Proceviat & Karen Antle
Eleanor Kotelo
Our Heartfelt condolences to you Marlene and all the family. Harry was so dedicated to family and such a caring , kind man which shone through in his wonderful smile. Harry had such noble qualities. May you find comfort in your memories.
Eleanor and Tony.
Bob Jackson
May the Family find peace with God at this difficult time, Harry was a good friend.
Sorry for your loss, he will be greatly missed.
Lester Wohlgemuth
Marlene, Candace, Cheryl and families. We are sorry to hear of your loss. Many good memories of Harry as a past neighbor, boss, and friend. One of my favorite memories, is of a flying trip to your cabin. Appreciate the privilege of knowing him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Lester and Lisa Wohlgemuth
Susan Fehr
May you get through this sad time with the comfort of prayers and your family and friends.
God bless you! Susan
Irene Podolchuk
Deepest condolences to Marlene, and family and grandchildren, as well as brother Barry & Evelyn, my thoughts and prayers have been with your Dear family on the tragic loss of of your Husband, father, grandfather, brother. Dearest Harry, a very special cousin & wonderful caring man who worked so hard and cared for so many, he will be sadly missed by all his family, bless you all and my prayers are with you always. There are no words to describe, he was a caring person to many, who had a special smile for those he loved. Take good care always Dear family.
Marilyn Ewanochko
Dearest Marlene and family:
Words cannot express how sad we were to hear of Harry’s passing. The sting was deep, Harry was an earth angel and now is our heavenly angel. Ken and the boys expressed the good times they had with Harry flying out fishing and hunting. We as a family can’t imagine how difficult a time this is for you all. May your memories and the love you shared sustain you. God Bless
Hugs
Ken, Marilyn
Terry and Trevor
Jerry and Angie Terriaca (cruise friends of yours & Wayne & Susan)
Our deepest Condolences Marlene, to you and your family. We were very saddened to hear of the accident. May he RIP with the angels and other family members.
from Jerry and Angie Terriaca.
Gerald and Pamela Hawranik
We are so sorry to hear this news. He was a legend in his time. May God bless and comfort his family…